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In same way shape or form we all have played apart in bullying.  I use to do it until i realized how much it really bothers someone.  Personal I like to be friends with everybody………  The weirdos, nerds, and even the mentally handicapped YES even the mentally handicapped

The weirdos and the nerds are actually one in the same yeah they might weird you out but they are actually really nice and i like to make everybody feel as though they matter even if it is just a hello

Now the mentally handicapped you have a real straight face to handle them be nice on the outside but on your guard in the inside cause they got that crackhead strong so if something ever gets out of hand they holding you down thinking its no big deal ok no shit just got real ok you need to protect yourself i know you might end up hurting them but try to keep in mind they dont know what they doing if you can but moving on

Yeah i am nice to all people cause the way the world is today chern to sensitive now a days you make fun of them they coming for you for BLOOD!!!!  Shooting up the school now they see me hopefully i’ll be spared okk

Now there is this thing on fb where tis guy exposed these girls naked bodies yeah i laughed and what not then it hit me in my white girl voice hey this is cyberbullying lmao

But yeah everybody was commenting sayin mean things and i just took the time to think of those poor girls publicly humilated like that i felt bad like thats the type of stuff people kill themselves over but karma is a bitch so lord have mercy on that boy

And come on yall boy know yall done send out a naked pic out there before shout i got some floating around myself somewhere lmao

Lets be real now

Now everybody is talking mad shit about this man well atleast all the black people but to be politicaly correct African American’s :)

I mean I am black so of course I feel some type of way I want blood just as much as everybody else but there is something that I need to say that I just been to afraid to say out loud cause i was kinda ashamed so here goes…  I FEEL SORRY FOR THE MAN

Like he been probably just some regular white man looking out for his neighborhood chilling living the good life hell he probably took his postion to damn serious i can picture him waiting for something to pop off well i guess poor little Trayvon had to do.

But can you imagine how he feel now the whole mother fucking world hates his ass that’s a lot to bare so he deserves some pity

Yeah he has been charge but he aint going to be around the general republic cause people want that ass to bad so really wheres the justice

There is always the future when he get a new identity and walk among us just like CASEY ANTHONY ass yeah i see you bitch you aint slick lol i quit

I am a firm believe in using google for EVERYTHING, so I would like to take the time to encourage others to as well.

Of course google is a great search engine for finding stuff out for school like research papers but that is not all you can use it for.  Let’s say your having some issues in your private area maybe some burning sensations and your just a little bit to ashamed to discuss it with anybody but your dying to know what it could be??  Child you better go to google put those symptoms in so you can figure out if your ass need to get checked (most likely you do).  Imma let yall in on something I am a very good lover and you know why??  Yes, google got it all some freaky positions the whole nine even how to suck a penis my man gives me great reviews and i owe it all to google lol sorry if that was TMI

You can ask questions like how to tell someone you like them, they will have sites that breakdown step by step.  Or if you throwing a party and need ideas on a theme google has it all.  When friends come to me with a problem i’ll put that thing in google then call them back with an answer lmao

If you asked the most off the wall question like hmmm how to make anal sex feel good child i bet you anything it will be on there

If you aint been doing it before yall better get up on Google

Ok this is the first thing EVERYBODY should know before making friends but most likely your going to learn the hard way.  ALL YOU HAVE IN THIS WORLD IS YOURSELF!!!!  They say you got to say something at least three times to recieve so here we go.  ALL YOU HAVE IN THIS WORLD IS YOURSELF ALL YOU HAVE IN THIS WORLD IS YOURSELF ALL YOU HAVE IN THIS WORLD IS YOURSELF.  This applies to family as well but now that you have that crucial fact lets move on.

People are flawed and it’s the ones closet to you that fuck you over the worst.  Ok here are some scenarios your best friend fucks your boyfriend/gf your pissed as fuck and you wanna fight carry on act an ass.  Another girl is trying to get with your boyfriend you want to fight her.  You lost your best friend or girl friend or boyfriend your crying can’t eat or sleep.  If people would look at the bigger picture we would have a lot less drama.

Those type of situations always have a big blown out outcome and its like bitch are you crazy so what so and so lied fucked whoever cheated on whoever and ten years you aint going to remember none of these people

Oh so and so is a hoe she fucked so much people.  SO WHAT we are young we do dumb stuff everyone experiments if your going to do something why not do it with a BANG it is not really that serious

Do you honestly think your going to be ready to settle down with one person at 16-18 um NOOT you sound dumb.  At those ages you need to embrace the fact that your young who is really looking for love at that age

Let’s be real

So you finally did it now!  Done messed around and got yourself pregnant huh.  To fast for your own good. SMH!!!  LOL SIKE i am pretty sure that’s what people were saying behind your back or to your face well they can suck it.  It is sad to see babies raising babies but they’ re doing it and some are doing a hell of a lot better then grown ass women out there.  This is a new era everybody is experiencing sex at a young age and its cause most of them don’t know any better.  But MISTAKES happen it’s ok everything is going to be fine when you think positive stuff postive things happen but lets start

Ok so you found out that your pregnant first step is telling the child’s father or yo BABYDADDY.  Now if you have slept with so many people and your not sure who it maybe don’t feel ashmaded it happens like do you think your the only one who has ever been in that position um no lets be honest here.  But if you can try to narrow it down to two people you should inform both parties and maybe one or both will step up to help you and even if the child doesn’t end up to be theres will still stick around to help you.  But lets rewind so your telling your partner your pregnant he might be an asshole try to deny it, want to have an aportion, or accept.  The most common reply is so what are you going to do.

What are you going to do??  Well you know that as females we have choices there is adoption, go through with it, and abortion.  I am not a judgemental person whatever option you choose you have reasons.  But for me a could not have got an abortion because it just scared me to much bc sometimes the pieces have to come out you…….. let me stop right there i don’t want to scare anybody out of that options bc babies are REALLY expensive and your life might not be the best to bring a child in this world some might say if that is the case adoption should be your choice but when your carrying your baby inside of you for nine months that is apart you that is a deep connection that grows. 

But moving right along if you choose to have that baby telling your parents should be your next step.  Yes the will be disappointed hurt cry the whole sha-bang they might say irrational things tellin you to get an abortion or kick you out.  Well if your not a strong person here is where you should start building your strength cause it gets harder from here honey.

Now where do you go from here either your mom done calm down and is going to tolerate the situation or she done kick you out.  If you get kicked out 9 out of 10 times a family member is going to take you in but if you absolutely positively dont have anywhere to go then there then i an sorry but your going to have to go to a shelter

Now living in a shelter maybe devestating but it is actually not that bad. Your going to be there with dozens of teens that are pregnant like yourself and you have people there to make sure you finish school make sure your feed good making sure you take your prenatals and that you go to the doctor.  And the girls that are there will be your support system.  The people there also help you get your own place can you say INDEPENDENT

Then nine months later your ready to give birth and all of a sudden the sky opens up and its like god himself is smiling upon you and your bundle of joy.  Congradulations

If your just living your life doing whatever you want with no regards to anything or anybody.  You can do that and you want to know why?? Cause your YOUNG.  But in the mist of things out of nowhere shit hits the fan and you mess around and get PREGNANT

It happens to the best of us no need to be ashamed. So what if it was just a one time thing it 2012 guys people are screwing who ever they want.  Sex is apart of the circle of life.

But my point and all this is that you need to distinguish what type of BABYDADDY you have especially if you are considering keeping the baby

First things first tell him and if his reaction is abortion dont worry it might change depending on what type of man your dealing with

Now if he is a younger guy between the ages of 16-17 hmmm that might be rough because he is still a child himself and my not be ready to step up to the plate he might be there every now and again but not as much as you would like.  If you watch the show 16&pregnant it does have some truth to it about how the fathers are but that’s tv there tryin to put on a good show with all that drama cause sometimes its really not like that.  But anywho the best part of this if you do have a babydaddy at the age is there FAMILY that boys parents or relitives 9 times out of 10 will be helping taking care of the child so even if the father dnt wanna be there his relitives will and that is a plus

If he is 18-19 the same rules do apply sorta of but his older and might have a good job by now but he is still young and may not want to raise a child but girl there is CHILD SUPPORT which is a big help.  But since he is older he might just end up taking care of the baby do his fatherly duties

If he 20 or older your most likely to have a family yall live together raise the baby that whole fairy tale life but that definatetly depends on there maturity and if there doing something with there life.

So odds are the older he is the better chance you have of a father in your child’s life.

Now I just touched base on the basics there is more to it in the world of babydaddy’s so I would be happy to answer any questions you may have